“WhatsApp aur Instagram aane se pehle – Doston aur Bhaiyon ki Asli Mulaqatein”

WhatsApp aur Instagram aane se pehle – doston
 aur bhaiyon ki asli mulaqatein

Palat ke dekhna zara…

                           Aajkal har rishta screens pe chalta hai. “Hi” ek emoji se hota hai, “miss you” sirf status tak simat gaya hai, aur dosti? Bas ek group chat ya Insta story tak reh gayi hai. Lekin ek waqt tha, jab dosti ka matlab tha – milna, baithna, hansna, ladna aur phir se milna.
Jab WhatsApp nahi tha, tab waqt tha. Jab Instagram nahi tha, tab log the – asli log, asli mulaqat.

🔸 Bachpan ka connection – bina signal ke strong tha

Ham phone lekar paida nahi hue the. Na humare paas unlimited data tha, na video call. Lekin ek chhoti si awaaz –

"Oye bahar aa!"
aur poori gang gali mein jama ho jaati thi.

Bina kisi planning ke cricket match hota tha, bina kisi appointment ke chhat pe baithak lagti thi. Na likes chahiye hote the, na views – bas ek chhoti si muskurahat aur dosti poori ho jaati thi.

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🔸 Bhaiyon ki yaari – woh jo dikhti nahi thi, lekin chhu jaati thi

Bhai matlab sirf khoon ka rishta nahi, woh dosti bhi hoti thi jo school ke baad hoti thi, tuition ke raste mein banti thi, ya gali ke nukkad pe cricket ke chakkar mein ho jaati thi.

Ek dusre ke ghar bina bataye chale jaate the,
ek plate mein chaar spoon leke chaat khaate the,
ek dusre ke jhoot ko cover karte the – aur kabhi kabhi sach ke liye lad bhi jaate the.

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🔸 Technology ke bina emotions zyada the

Aaj kisi ka birthday hota hai toh ek WhatsApp forward ya Insta story daal kar kaam ho jaata hai. Lekin tab ek chhoti si greeting card likhna bhi ek celebration hota tha.
Kya tune bhi kabhi ye kiya hai?

• Secret diary mein dosti ke naam likhna?

• Ya kisi dost ke liye kuch handmade banana?

Yeh cheezein chhoti lagti thi, par feelings badi hoti thi.

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🔸 Screen wali dosti vs saamne wali dosti

WhatsApp dikhata hai ki "typing...", lekin real life wali dosti me log samajh jaate the bina bole.
Instagram pe filters hote hain, lekin us zamane me chehre pe asli muskaan hoti thi.
Aaj ka dard reels ban jaata hai, tab ka dard doston ki peeth pe hath rakh kar baat karne se kam ho jaata tha.

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🔸 Aaj bhi wo din yaad aate hain...

Jab chhat pe late night baatein hoti thi.
Jab bina selfie ke khush rehna aata tha.
Jab har sham ek adventure hoti thi – nayi game, nayi baat, nayi masti.

Mummy chillati thi – "andar aa jaa, raat ho gayi!"
Lekin hum kehte the – "thoda aur mummy, bas 5 minute!"
Aur woh 5 minute zindagi ban jaate the.

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🔸Ek soch, ek yaad, ek jazba

Shayad technology ne hume aasaan tareeke diye milne ke,
lekin jo baat uss "seedhe milne" me thi, woh kisi message me nahi.

Aaj bhi agar kisi purane dost ko bina kisi reason ke mil lo, to lagta hai zindagi fir se jee li.
Kash ek din ho jahan na WhatsApp ho, na Instagram –
Sirf hum ho, dosti ho, aur woh chhoti chhoti mulaqatein... jismein zindagi chhupi hoti thi.

 Ab tu yaad kar...

Tu bhi soch…
Woh kaun sa dost tha jise tu bina phone ke, bina message ke mil jaata tha har din?
Kya tujhe bhi yaad hai woh samay, jab milne ke liye kisi excuse ki zarurat nahi padti thi?

Mere liye to woh din alag hi the jab main purane ghar ki gali mein har shaam cricket khelta tha.
Na clock dekhta tha, na mummy ka chillana sunti thi – sirf masti hoti thi.
Aur raat ko woh terrace pe baithkar bina light ke bhi baatein chalti rehti thi.

Mujhe aaj bhi yaad hai woh “Oye Sid!” kehke bulana,
woh dosto ki cycle pe double seat le jaana,.😄

 TUMHARE KAUN SE DOST YAAD AAYE?

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Comment me unka naam likho, jinke bina bachpan adhoora lagta hai.
Aur agar himmat ho... to unhe tag ya forward bhi kar do –
Shayad unki screen ke uss taraf bhi wohi yaadein chal rahi hoon.

"Asli dosti status nahi hoti, yaadon ka screenshot hoti hai." 💭